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	<title>Comments on: Life lessons for a soon to be teen, what would you suggest?</title>
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		<title>By: sarbal</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5066</link>
		<dc:creator>sarbal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 15:15:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fraz,
Wow! I am thrilled with the response and will use everything for Jack&#039;s &quot;CaliMitvah&quot; book. I know that people in LA have a certain attitude unique to the geography. Jack can only benefit from their musings, suggestions, recommendations and experience.This is why we live here.  You see, I am not asking anyone from the Bible Belt or Virginias.

Fraz us right, he wants for not. He plays guitar, has been around the world a few times ( but not to Disney world) We&#039;d rather show our kids the real deal than take them to some fake version of it. He is a certified soccer referee, so no allowance here, he buys his own stuff, and has a 3.5 GPA. We expect excellence not perfection. Honesty and accountablity are huge in our home. We parent the &quot;old fashioned way&quot;.


He will have hundreds of friends during his lifetime, but only one mom and dad-who, for the next few years, he will most likely come to despise. While sulking in his room, perhaps he&#039;ll glance through this book and some random nugget will resonate with him. I&#039;ll never know. It&#039;s a helluva lot better than some bullshit &quot;purpose driven life&quot; or &quot;how to talk with your parents&quot; book, that kids are given these days.  So, from the bottom of my heart, Thank You to all who have chimed in.  Sarbal

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fraz,<br />
Wow! I am thrilled with the response and will use everything for Jack&#8217;s &#8220;CaliMitvah&#8221; book. I know that people in LA have a certain attitude unique to the geography. Jack can only benefit from their musings, suggestions, recommendations and experience.This is why we live here.  You see, I am not asking anyone from the Bible Belt or Virginias.</p>
<p>Fraz us right, he wants for not. He plays guitar, has been around the world a few times ( but not to Disney world) We&#8217;d rather show our kids the real deal than take them to some fake version of it. He is a certified soccer referee, so no allowance here, he buys his own stuff, and has a 3.5 GPA. We expect excellence not perfection. Honesty and accountablity are huge in our home. We parent the &#8220;old fashioned way&#8221;.</p>
<p>He will have hundreds of friends during his lifetime, but only one mom and dad-who, for the next few years, he will most likely come to despise. While sulking in his room, perhaps he&#8217;ll glance through this book and some random nugget will resonate with him. I&#8217;ll never know. It&#8217;s a helluva lot better than some bullshit &#8220;purpose driven life&#8221; or &#8220;how to talk with your parents&#8221; book, that kids are given these days.  So, from the bottom of my heart, Thank You to all who have chimed in.  Sarbal</p>
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		<title>By: jbjh</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5065</link>
		<dc:creator>jbjh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 20:36:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Open doors and pull out chairs for women.
Yes sirs and No mams too
Don&#039;t bother with drugs and alchohol in your teen years (plenty of time for that later)
While premarital sex is OK, understand that it distorts your view of the relationship
Anyone who says condoms don&#039;t feel good is using them wrong.
If you have them, don&#039;t let your study habits fall off. If you don&#039;t have them, learn to study - it will help you thru life more than anything else you learn in school
Turn off the TV
Learn to fight (fists and words). You might never need it, but the confidence that comes with being able to give and take in that kind of situation gives you confidence you can&#039;t get anywhere else
Pick your head up and look around - not only will you spot danger before it is on you, you will see all the beautiful things in life too
Make a plan and set goals - without it, you are just wishing on a star. And you can always adjust as needed.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Open doors and pull out chairs for women.<br />
Yes sirs and No mams too<br />
Don&#8217;t bother with drugs and alchohol in your teen years (plenty of time for that later)<br />
While premarital sex is OK, understand that it distorts your view of the relationship<br />
Anyone who says condoms don&#8217;t feel good is using them wrong.<br />
If you have them, don&#8217;t let your study habits fall off. If you don&#8217;t have them, learn to study &#8211; it will help you thru life more than anything else you learn in school<br />
Turn off the TV<br />
Learn to fight (fists and words). You might never need it, but the confidence that comes with being able to give and take in that kind of situation gives you confidence you can&#8217;t get anywhere else<br />
Pick your head up and look around &#8211; not only will you spot danger before it is on you, you will see all the beautiful things in life too<br />
Make a plan and set goals &#8211; without it, you are just wishing on a star. And you can always adjust as needed.</p>
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		<title>By: yourfriend</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5064</link>
		<dc:creator>yourfriend</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 18:38:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Continue to say &quot;Please&quot; and &quot;Thank You&quot;. It never gets old and people appreciate it.

Don&#039;t burn a bridge as you may need to cross it again later on down the road.

Trust your intuition and feelings when decision making. If you make a mistake, log the feeling and use it when youre put in a similar situation in the future.

Worry about others feelings but don&#039;t harp on them. Yours really are the most important.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Continue to say &#8220;Please&#8221; and &#8220;Thank You&#8221;. It never gets old and people appreciate it.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t burn a bridge as you may need to cross it again later on down the road.</p>
<p>Trust your intuition and feelings when decision making. If you make a mistake, log the feeling and use it when youre put in a similar situation in the future.</p>
<p>Worry about others feelings but don&#8217;t harp on them. Yours really are the most important.</p>
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		<title>By: girl86</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5063</link>
		<dc:creator>girl86</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 17:39:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you get caught up in something, don&#039;t fight the riptide.  Let it carry you until it&#039;s safe to get out, or else you may make things worse.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you get caught up in something, don&#8217;t fight the riptide.  Let it carry you until it&#8217;s safe to get out, or else you may make things worse.</p>
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		<title>By: aaronproctor</title>
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		<dc:creator>aaronproctor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 16:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about:

It&#039;s not gonna matter how &quot;popular&quot; you are in High School.

All the &quot;popular&quot; kids from my HS back in Philly now are exotic dancers, have 3 kids, or work at Wal-Mart.

I didn&#039;t go to the prom, had bad social skills, and girls didn&#039;t like me - and, ten years later, I received 11% of the vote in Pasadena and am its Most Electrifying Man.

The Proc says high school is its own dimension:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KEn2oqHhBY

- AP
http://www.proctorformayor.com

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about:</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not gonna matter how &#8220;popular&#8221; you are in High School.</p>
<p>All the &#8220;popular&#8221; kids from my HS back in Philly now are exotic dancers, have 3 kids, or work at Wal-Mart.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t go to the prom, had bad social skills, and girls didn&#8217;t like me &#8211; and, ten years later, I received 11% of the vote in Pasadena and am its Most Electrifying Man.</p>
<p>The Proc says high school is its own dimension:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KEn2oqHhBY" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5KEn2oqHhBY</a></p>
<p>- AP<br />
<a href="http://www.proctorformayor.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.proctorformayor.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Julia Frey</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5061</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia Frey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 15:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Short term -- High school and the teen age years are just a few short years out of decades of life, in other words, this too shall pass, in more other words, just be patient if life doesn&#039;t seem to be going your way.
(Personally I loved high school, but I knew there was so much beyond it, just waiting for me.)

Try everything, be curious.

READ!

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Short term &#8212; High school and the teen age years are just a few short years out of decades of life, in other words, this too shall pass, in more other words, just be patient if life doesn&#8217;t seem to be going your way.<br />
(Personally I loved high school, but I knew there was so much beyond it, just waiting for me.)</p>
<p>Try everything, be curious.</p>
<p>READ!</p>
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		<title>By: samba00</title>
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		<dc:creator>samba00</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 15:31:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about:

People want to like you, and usually will until you give them a reason not to.

&amp;

People like to talk about themselves. Ask questions.

These two rules will combat shyness and allow you to get along with just about anyone.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about:</p>
<p>People want to like you, and usually will until you give them a reason not to.</p>
<p>&amp;</p>
<p>People like to talk about themselves. Ask questions.</p>
<p>These two rules will combat shyness and allow you to get along with just about anyone.</p>
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		<title>By: marshall</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5059</link>
		<dc:creator>marshall</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 14:04:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Never trust anyone over 30.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never trust anyone over 30.</p>
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		<title>By: frazgo</title>
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		<dc:creator>frazgo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 12:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarbal reads and comments here,
I live here, He lives here, born here and another host of heres about a young man approaching adulthood in LA?

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarbal reads and comments here,<br />
I live here, He lives here, born here and another host of heres about a young man approaching adulthood in LA?</p>
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		<title>By: Jason DeFillippo</title>
		<link>http://blogging.la/2008/08/17/life-lessons-for-a-soon-to-be-teen-what-would-you-suggest/comment-page-1/#comment-5057</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason DeFillippo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 08:22:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What the hell does this have to do with LA?

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What the hell does this have to do with LA?</p>
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